How do you seduce a woman?

Posted: August 6, 2010 in Bisexual, Non-monogamy

Seriously? I am honestly putting this out into the interwebz because I would really like to know. I don’t want any advice from the perspective of a man, at least I don’t think a heterosexual man would have anything to offer that I didn’t already know.

I’m a married, bisexual woman – and I want a girlfriend.

I know I’m a bit reserved at times, and have to usually be intoxicated to get my “flirt” on – but even then, I’m at a loss at how to approach a woman.

I’d love to be one of those women that could be in a bar (anywhere really!) and find a lady to bring home with me – and she actually does. Or even better, why can’t I get picked up by a woman?

Even with women that I KNOW I can be with (and have been) – I’m reserved and shy, often paralyzed from making the first move. But, this behavior isn’t going to get me what I want, what I crave…

So, I ask you – how do you seduce a woman?

  1. I am not agressive with women at all. Maybe that’s why it’s been so long. I have always just remained open and allowed myself to be seduced. I have also said “I am nervous” and “I don’t know what to say/do”. Just be yourself- honest and open. Trust me you wouldn’t want most of the “picked up in bars” women anyway. 😉

    • I agree about the women in a bar, just kind of using it as an example… being myself is most often described as “intimidating” though, so I’m not sure how effective that method will ever be! Thanks for your input!

  2. Alexa says:

    I wrote a piece a few months ago about how to go about picking up women, and having picked up more than 4 dozen myself, I know this stuff really works if you approach it with confidence. That’s going to be the biggest hurdle for you – accepting that trying to pick up a woman might fail and if it fails, moving onto the next woman you’re interested in.

    You might find something of use there.

  3. mollyskiss says:

    The fact that you can shy and reserved and slow to make the first move would make me want to seduce you.


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